Tag: reframing

#16: How do I correct sexist language without scaring my report?

#16: How do I correct sexist language without scaring my report?

Dear Ally (Skills Teacher), I'm a white man in a leadership position at a tech company. My team is unusually diverse and we talk about diversity fairly often. A few months back one of the men on my team used the phrase 'girls' when describing young women (in their early twenties) who work as professional … Continue reading #16: How do I correct sexist language without scaring my report?

#4: What do I tell men who are afraid to mentor women?

#4: What do I tell men who are afraid to mentor women?

Dear Ally Skills Teacher, Men in senior roles, like me, have a responsibility to mentor junior women, to ensure women have a fair chance to succeed. But men have recently gotten frightened by #MeToo and are pulling back from this responsibility. I've had direct conversations with men about this, and I'm convinced I have to … Continue reading #4: What do I tell men who are afraid to mentor women?

#1: A woman of color I work with opposes anti-racism work

#1: A woman of color I work with opposes anti-racism work

Welcome to Dear Ally Skills Teacher! For my first few columns, I will be answering questions I frequently get in Ally Skills Workshops, summarized by me in letter form. Future columns will be answers to questions sent in by readers, which you can send by filling out this form. Dear Ally Skills Teacher, I am … Continue reading #1: A woman of color I work with opposes anti-racism work