Tag: practicing

#17: How do I stop being “nice” and start standing up to racism at work?

#17: How do I stop being “nice” and start standing up to racism at work?

Dear Ally (Skills Teacher), I am a socially awkward, queer fat white woman working at a government agency in Canada. I would like some advice about what to do as a bystander when my white colleagues of any gender are engaging in subtle (or not so subtle) racist behaviour against my women of color colleagues. … Continue reading #17: How do I stop being “nice” and start standing up to racism at work?

#8: How do I make people to want to act as allies?

#8: How do I make people to want to act as allies?

Dear Ally (Skills Teacher), I'm a white man in a position of cultural and professional privilege at an engineering-focused tech company. Some of the other white men here have privately admitted to me that they no longer participate in conversations of race and gender. They're scared of the shame they'll face if they say something … Continue reading #8: How do I make people to want to act as allies?

#5: How do I learn what racism looks like in an unfamiliar culture?

#5: How do I learn what racism looks like in an unfamiliar culture?

Dear Ally (Skills Teacher), I am a white foreigner living in the U.S., so aside from my accent my privilege is most alike the rest of the white, middle-class, college educated community. However, I have an ignorance about racism here that I am not sure how to rectify. I have a much better understanding of … Continue reading #5: How do I learn what racism looks like in an unfamiliar culture?